Show or Feel....Love Ofcourse!!!
So do you believe in showing your love in special ways, or let them feel it without any means of Expression?
I believe this is an individual preference and in a relationship the couples decision. Whats my take on this, I love showing my love in various different ways I write poems, cook favorite food, take extra extra care when sick, plan a special birthday or trip, plan birthday gifts with care, buy a special treat etc etc. This is not just for the special someone but for every relationship in my life.
I have a motto on "Should I show or let them feel"
How can they feel if there is no Show? Should I read into the smile at different times, should I decode the sparkle in the eye when they see me. Even when my mom loves me, I see it in the form of a hot snack she makes for me as soon as I come back from work. Even that is show.
Love in any form should be a combination of show tell and feel. It also depends on situations, timing of everything revolving around us. We will always have busy work schedule, meetings, Classes for children, birthday parties, social gathering. Its on us to take time to share, care and love the ones that we consider important in our lives. Its never too late to start.
So suggestions to at least consider:
To a girlfriend, show your love to him
To a boyfriend, stop being a guy and show you care
To a father, display your love to your kids, now is the time
To a mother, if you are happy, you would be able to give happy, pause, and take a deep breath sometimes
To a Wife, make time for those little moments to show
To a Husband, little actions go a long way
To a Friend, its rare to find a soulmate cherish and show it
To a Girl, pamper yourself love yourself
To a Guy, take some time for hobbies and feel good within
So share with me your experiences on how you do it?
Have a Lovey Dovey Friday